One of the most difficult thing to manage in life is
break-ups; especially one that happens to a very important relationship. Breaking
up with a loved one is not easy to manage as it has emotional effect on one.
In most cases, most party has to go through it; and in doing
this, there are healthy and unhealthy ways of dealing with it. In many cases
one of the partners might take the unhealthy way with dealing with such
break-ups, in other words, trying to punish the other partner; then there are
ways of dealing with such partners.
The best ways to deal with an annoying ex will be fervently
discussed here. And it will be good to state from the beginning here that the
best way to deal with an annoying ex is to ensure that you focus on having a
good health and also making sure your very own well-being is your utmost
priority.
Deal with an evil ex
by ignoring him or her
There is nothing bad in remaining friends with your ex;
however, if they are turning to a real pain in the a*s, then the best thing to
do is to ignore them.
This can be done by ignoring their calls or texts (blocking
their lines will be best), blocking them on social media; as this is very
important.
Do not be swayed by
their emotions
Once you know and you are certain the relationship is over,
do not be deceived by their emotions. Exes know the right button to push and of
course it works out for them many times; except you can stop it by being
unmoved by their pleas or emotional talks.
Some might start crying, some might remind you of the
promises you have both made in the past, or perhaps the good times you’ve both
spent in the past. Do not be moved by this, as this is just an emotional stunt
to get you back.
Do not justify your
reasons
If you ever have the opportunity of having a heart to heart
talk with your ex, never try to justify your reasons for breaking up with him
or her. It’s not bad to tell your ex why you break up with him or her, but it’s
pretty bad if you are trying to justify your reason for your act.
You might be forced into an argument that you could never
win and that could still bring you back into the relationship. As a result, be
firm with your decision and let him or her know it’s over.
Carefully assess the
situation you are in
If your ex is the type that is stalking you, making threats
or perhaps harassing you, then the police should be informed and possibly a
court injunction might be needed too.
Always report to the police if you feel you are in danger, or
your ex is making some form of physical and non-physical threats to you.
Tell your family,
friends and associates about it
One or more of your family or friends might want to try to
bring you back together. However, the best thing to do is to have a serious
talk with them, and make them see why you are opting out of the relationship. Also
let them realize your ex is becoming a threat to you.
Aside this let them know they shouldn’t give private
information about you to him or her, as this might be dangerous.
Fight against the
‘for old time sake’ syndrome
If truly you are ready to move on, then you have to let go
of everything and concentrate on the future. I have seen many guys and ladies who
are not happy in their relationship; and when you ask why they are still in it,
they tell you for old time sake.
It is advisable that you use your head this time and don’t
listen to your heart. Forget about the past and embrace what lies ahead of you
in the future.
Keep to these ways and
you will definitely see it will help out. Let’s hear your thoughts and views!
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